When Diplomacy Masquerades as Blackmail: The Strategic Mistake of Ultimatums in Negotiations

For some time now, initiatives have been taking place in Europe that, at least in words, seem to be oriented towards peace. Yet something does not add up. These declarations are not followed by gestures of détente, nor a softening of the tone , as would be normal in consolidated diplomatic practice when one really wants to start a serious and credible negotiation process.
On the contrary, what we see are invectives, accusations, ultimatums and threats of new sanctions against Russia .
A case in point is the recent statement by French President Emmanuel Macron, who threatened Russia with a new package of sanctions “within days” if Moscow does not accept a 30-day ceasefire.
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“If Moscow does not accept the cessation of sanctions, the aura of additional sanctions is more severe,” declared Emmanuel Macron. pic.twitter.com/NLC8I1qPMH
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This position represents yet another diplomatic paradox and a serious methodological error.
Moreover, Macron’s statements are not an isolated episode, but are part of a coordinated strategy with other European leaders and with US President Donald Trump. On 10 May 2025, Macron, together with Keir Starmer, Donald Tusk and Friedrich Merz, took part in a visit to Kiev , where an ultimatum was launched to Vladimir Putin: accept an unconditional ceasefire by 12 May or face “massive” sanctions coordinated between Europe and the United States. This approach, which sees European leaders aligned with Trump's coercive rhetoric , seems more geared towards applying pressure than encouraging genuine dialogue. Moscow's reaction was immediate: former President Dmitry Medvedev called the ultimatum a "threat" and dismissed it as a ploy to gain time to resupply Ukrainian troops at the front , at a time when Russian forces continued to advance. From the Russian point of view, sincere negotiations cannot be subordinated to a unilateral 30-day truce, but should begin immediately, without any stringent conditions.
#Ukraine The peace requested by the #EU “leaders” ( #Macron in the lead) is not only unrealistic, since it implies that the winner – a #Russia that has been monstrous – will give in unconditionally, but it is also false: for them “peace” is an empty word. It's a subterfuge to cultivate other interests pic.twitter.com/9VWQLuTaOI
— Martina Pastorelli (@CathVoicesITA) May 8, 2025
Furthermore, it must be considered that, as already mentioned, in normal diplomatic practice an effective negotiation is based on trust, reciprocity and willingness to compromise . Whoever proposes himself as a facilitator or promoter of peace must maintain a credible third party or at least a posture of a reliable interlocutor, capable of creating a negotiating space where the parties perceive the possibility of obtaining advantages or saving face.
Imposing ultimatums or threats of sanctions undermines this function at its roots: it is no longer a question of facilitation, but of unilateral coercion . It is a posture that transforms negotiation into a continuation of political and economic pressure, no longer into an alternative to conflict .
The paradox is compounded by the current context: Russia, on the ground, is in a position of tactical and strategic advantage . To demand that it accept a 30-day ceasefire under the threat of new sanctions is to ignore a basic principle of diplomacy: those in a position of strength have no incentive to stop unless they receive concrete compensation or reliable guarantees .
Indeed, this move risks radicalizing the Russian position , confirming the perception of a European diplomacy positioned as a belligerent party under the guise of negotiation . In this way, the very possibility of opening a real future dialogue is compromised, because it breaks that minimum of trust necessary between the parties .
Finally, such an approach exposes the European Union to a loss of international credibility as an actor of peace . If the negotiation is reduced to a series of conditional threats, anyone who sits at a table mediated by Brussels or Paris will do so knowing that he is facing a non-neutral arbitrator , ready to use coercive levers instead of instruments of balance.
Diplomacy, to be effective, cannot limit itself to being a continuation of war by other means : it must introduce different logics and languages, capable of breaking the spiral of conflict and not just prolonging it in another form .
In this sense, Macron's statements represent not only an ineffective move, but a strategic error that reduces the negotiating space, weakens Europe and prolongs the conflict itself .
But the paradox does not end there. As if to complete the work, on May 9 , while Russia was celebrating the anniversary of the victory over Nazism in Moscow together with the heads of state of 70 countries, 30 European foreign ministers met in Lviv to initiate the establishment of a special tribunal charged with indicting Putin, with the declared aim of "prosecuting the Russian leadership for the brutal war of aggression" .
All this while Moscow continues to demand – so far in vain – that the root causes of the war be taken into account as the basis for any negotiations.
Here again, the chosen approach seems specifically constructed to exclude any diplomatic avenue .
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